Recently I found this quote that wowed me: “Confidence is a choice… a big part of being confident is being brave, and you can’t be brave unless you’re scared.” Wow. The thought that you have to be scared, that feeling scared is a part of the process of building your confidence sent my head (and old beliefs!) spinning on its heel. I mean, aren’t we constantly being told that to be brave and courageous, we aren’t supposed to be afraid or feel fear? Well, that my lovies is an ol